Before I Do is an upcoming LGBTQ+ romantic comedy starring Cole Doman, Michael Hsu Rosen, Nico Greetham, Robin de Jesús, and Jared Reinfeldt. This will be the first feature-length film for writer/director Gary Jaffe, who previously worked in short films like 2017's Sunset, 2019's Next Level Shit, and 2020's Last Summer with Uncle Ira.
The main cast, production details, and official description about the upcoming queer rom-com was first reported by Variety. The publication also revealed that the movie was "shot on location in the Berkshires region of Massachusetts, with principal photography completed in Otis."
So, let's get to it: Here's everything we know so far about the upcoming queer romantic comedy Before I Do.
What is the gay rom-com 'Before I Do' about?
A clapperboard on set during the filming of Before I Do.
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According to the aforementioned report, Before I Do "follows a lakeside bachelor party weekend that devolves into chaos when the groom and his best man's past romantic feelings reignite."
That irresistible reunion ends up "entangling the wedding party — their college BFFs and the groom's not-so-straight best friend — in the chaotic pre-wedding drama."
While specific details like character names and bios have yet to be disclosed, keep scrolling to learn more about the five main actors in Before I Do.
Jared Reinfeldt
Jared Reinfeldt
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Jared Reinfeldt is best known for starring as Nick Barden on FX's Feud: Capote vs. The Swans, Ned Moffat in Greta Gerwig's Little Women, and other notable characters on TV shows like American Horror Story, Gossip Girl (2020), and The Flight Attendant.
Reinfeldt is an out gay man who's been married to Samuel Leicht — an actor, athlete, and founder of Pridefit — since August 2023.
You can follow Jared Reinfeldt on Instagram at @jaredreinfeldt.
Michael Hsu Rosen
Michael Hsu Rosen at the New York Stage and Film Annual Gala.
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Beyond his work on Broadway, which includes the 2009 reboot of West Side Story and the 2018 revival of Torch Song, Rosen has appeared on several TV shows and movies over the years. Namely, the actor starred in Glamorous, Tiny Pretty Things, The Sex Lives of College Girls, and Pretty Smart, to name a few.
In 2021, Rosen discussed his journey toward embracing his gay identity and Asian heritage, noting to HuffPost that he had to "assert" himself in order to live as his most authentic self.
You can follow Michael Hsu Rosen on Instagram at @michaelhsurosen.
Cole Doman
Cole Doman
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Cole Doman's acting credits include 2025's The Mastermind, 2024's Haze, 2015's Henry Gamble's Birthday Party, 2023's Mutt. Much like his costar Jared Reinfeldt, Doman was also featured in the HBO Max reboot of Gossip Girl. Despite growing up in a religious family, Doman is an out queer man who's been speaking about queer representation for many years.
"Of course, for me, as a queer person, I'm always seeking out projects that give visibility and life to a new voice, a new face, and a new narrative," Doman said in an interview from 2017. "Especially one that has been created by a queer person and not necessarily a portrait of what someone believes a queer person should be."
You can follow Cole Doman on Instagram at @cole.doman.
Robin de Jesús
Robin de Jesús at the grand premiere of Netflix's Black Rabbit.
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A three-time Tony Award nominee for his roles as Sonny in In the Heights, Jacob in La Cage aux Folles, and Emory in The Boys in the Band, Robin de Jesús will also star in Before I Do. His onscreen credits include Tick, Tick… BOOM!, Welcome to Chippendales, and Black Rabbit.
De Jesús is of Puerto Rican descent. He's also an out gay man. "The most masculine thing you can do is be courageous. Be that queer, gay, nelly boy. Live your life," he told The Advocate in 2018.
You can follow Robin de Jesús on Instagram at @robinofjesus.
Nico Greetham
Nico Greetham at Vanity Fair and Instagram's 'The 2025 Vanities Party.'
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Nico Greetham is an actor, model, and dancer who literally competed in season 10 of So You Think You Can Dance. As an actor, he's starred in American Horror Story, The Prom film, Love, Victor, Birds of Prey, and Something Casual.
Greetham is also an out bisexual man, which he discussed in an episode from 2022 on the Oh Here We Go podcast.
You can follow Nico Greetham on Instagram at @nicogreetham.
When is 'Before I Do' being released?
The premiere date for Before I Do has yet to be announced. Stay tuned on Out for the latest updates.
