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23 Masturbation Tips for People with Vaginas
You should be good in bed even if you're the only one there.
Being a woman can feel like a full-time job you never get off. So sometimes, the best thing to do is simply get off.
How do you do it? Well, we've gathered a series of masturbation tips from women who have partners all across the gender spectrum.
Whether you're a lesbian, bisexual, or straight as a line, if you're looking for female-centric masturbation advice we've got you covered. Here are some of best moves for independent women who know the best kind of self care.
Correction: This story was originally run with the headline "23 Masturbation Tips for Girls Who Need to Get Off."Out has updated this story to more accurately represent the story.
Be In the Right Headspace
1. Do not judge yourself for your own fantasies or desires. Even if you wouldn't want to share with anyone what you masturbate to, still feel free to go to whatever place makes you feel the most excited. Nothing is too dirty for your mind.
2. If you're not using porn to stimulate yourself, play out situations in your mind. Change your place, your clothes, your job, your lover. Later, you can ask a partner to do for you what got you the most excited.
3. Find some porn that isn't for men. Good methods are checking the "popular with women" sections. There are also sites with porn curated to please women. We recommend checking out Bellesa!
4. Many women, gay and straight alike, enjoy watching lesbian sex. Also, some like man on man, as it feels less objectifying to women. (Remember that scene from The Kids Are All Right?) Don't be afraid to go out of your sexuality to be turned on.
5. Don't worry if the porn you watch doesn't match your sexuality. Porn isn't real life. It's a warped reality of sex, and whatever is fun for you to watch is just that: fun to watch.
Techniques
6. Grab your inner thighs or any other sensitive parts of your body while you're mid-orgasm, it enhances the climax.
7. Don't just massage your clit, but the area around it. Often a direct clit touch can be too much, so it's better to move back and forth quickly on the surrounding area.
8. Lick your fingers first if you're not wet enough when you begin. The closer you get to climax, the wetter you'll get naturally.
9. Don't be afraid to make it a full body sensory experience. Touch your breasts and other sensitive areas with a free hand.
10. Feel free to spread the fluids from inside your vagina as lubrication for your clit.
Getting Wet
11. If you have a detachable shower head, give yourself a special rinse.
12. Laying down in a bathtub also works great as well. Let the water run between your legs, flexing and retracting your legs to control pressure.
13. Feel free to change the temperature of the water from warm to cold to heighten your senses. Be careful not to scald yourself though!
14. If you really want to be kinky (and have your own pool) don't be afraid to get close up to the nozzle. The intense pressure on your clit or up your vag will be amazing.
Play With Yourself & Toys
15. Some of the most popular sex toys for women are vibrators and dildos. We recommend a thruster - a sex toy that not only vibrates on your clit or goes inside your vagina, but actually pumps inside you with the press of a button.
16. Get a large packet of batteries. These things die out when you need them most.
17. Don't buy your sex toys off Amazon or other unverified online retailers. They're not FDA approved and have been linked to causing cancer and infertility. Sex toys can be made with jelly-like plastic sheaths are made with phthalates -- those nasty chemicals that some water bottles are made with - and you don't want them to can eventually seep into your system.
18. Instead, buy from companies that sell non-toxic sex toys. Fun Factory, Lelo, Jimmy Jane, nJoy, JeJoue Vibratex, Goldfrau, Elemental Pleasures, OhMiBod, and Nob Elements are a few.
19. Wash your sex toys with antibacterial soap each time you use it. Please.
Value Yourself As Much As Your Orgasm
20. Don't be afraid to dress up in something slinky. Feeling sexy for yourself is a great reason to put on your favorite lingerie.
21. Clean your room first. It will make you feel terrible if you rub one out next to the pizza box you forgot to throw out.
22. Don't be afraid to do it outside of your bed. The kitchen, bathroom, standing up...these are options, and don't forget that.
23. Remind yourself that you are beautiful and enough, in and out of the bedroom.
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