When pop singer Hayley Kiyoko wrote her signature song āGirls Like Girlsā (over 150 million streams on Spotify) with Owen Thomas and Lily-May Young in 2015, it was aspirational ā an āI Wantā song for lesbian manifestation. Kiyoko says the tune is āabout being a person I wasnāt at the time,ā including being āconfident, going after the girl, getting the girl.ā
When she sat in the directorās chair alongside Austin S. Winchell for the music video ā which now has over 160 million views ā she says she āwas not confident enoughā to put herself in the starring role. Instead, she came up with a story about a teen girl named Coley (Stefanie Scott in the original music video, who would later cowrite the film) who is in love with her best friend who has a boyfriend.

Eleven years later, on June 19, 2026, Focus Features will release a film version of that story ā which Kiyoko also published as a book in 2023 ā in theaters. It marks Kiyokoās feature directorial debut, and stars Maya da Costa as Coley and Myra Molloy as Sonya, alongside Levon Hawke and Zach Braff. In addition to her Hollywood success, Kiyoko has found love and a healthy relationship with her fiancĆ©e, Bachelor star Becca Tilley.

āItās like I kind of manifested that when I wasnāt there yet,ā Kiyoko says. āAnd here we are, Iāve directed a feature film, I love who I am, I can scream at the top of my lungs, āgirls like girls like boys do,ā and I fully believe that, and I fully have that confidence now.ā
For the newly confident Kiyoko, casting an actor to play this aspirational teen character sheās been thinking about for over a decade was āan out-of-body experience.ā
āIāve always dreamt of, Who is Coley? What does she look like? Where does she come from?ā Kiyoko says.
When she watched the audition tape from da Costa, a Canadian actor who had previously played a teen in the award-winning, true-crime drama miniseries Under the Bridge, Kiyoko knew she was the only person for the role.

āI just saw like, everything, I saw the world, I saw her,ā Kiyoko says. āSheās so magnetic, sheās so authentic. She was 18 when we shot this film, and you really feel it. She allows herself to shine and also process what sheās going through in a teenage way, which is kind of messy.ā
Capturing a specifically queer teen experience in Coley and Sonyaās relationship was crucial to Kiyokoās vision for the production. Unable to verbalize their attraction to one another until late in the film, the girls fall in love through a series of whispered secrets, bedroom dances, backseat cuddles, and devastating eye contact.

āMy experience growing up queer and knowing that I was a lesbian for almost all my life and hiding that, I developed this language of silence. And a lot of my experiences and relationships and situationships were without words,ā Kiyoko says. āYou know, it was a hand on a thigh, it was a glance, it was a look, and for me, I feel like thatās such a vital part of the queer experience. Youāre not always able to share outwardly what is going on.ā
When the āGirls Like Girlsā music video came out in June 2015, it was just two days before same-sex marriage was legalized in the United States through Obergefell v. Hodges. While Kiyoko has worked hard to become the confident and happy queer person she dreamed of being in āGirls Like Girls,ā in some ways, queer rights and representation have gone backward.

Recent Disney and Pixar projects like the series Win or Lose and the films Inside Out 2 and Elio have been edited either to remove a characterās queerness or to make characters seem āless gay.ā GLAADās 2025 Studio Responsibility Index showed a 3.7 percent decrease in queer characters in movies over the last year, and an 11 percent decrease in queer characters with over 10 minutes of screen time.
āWe need more hopeful queer stories that are being supported by studios ā and being able to buy a ticket and go to the theater and be with community ā as opposed to it being kind of in the background,ā Kiyoko says. When she wrote the song, Kiyoko felt queer rights āwere having more steps forward,ā but now, in this time when the film is coming out, āI feel like weāve taken 10 steps back.ā

āMy hope has been to not only make a queer film but an unapologetically queer film. The film is called Girls Like Girls. It is not hiding behind anything. It is just who she is. And Iām so proud of that,ā Kiyoko adds. āAnd Iām so excited for young queer people to get to see a film so boldly unapologetic during such a heightened political time and a scary time for our community.ā
āI hope that it can be just a moment of relief and a safe space for people to go to the theater and know that every person in that theater is their community wherever they live,ā she adds.

Kiyoko says that the film coming out feels oddly ālike the beginning of an eraā instead of the end. āItās been a 10-year journey, and through every medium, Iāve been able to get closer and closer to my authentic truth, right? There was the song, and then the music video, and then the book,ā she says. āAnd so piece by piece, Iāve been like an onion peeling to my authentic truth, and now this feature film exists, and this is my most authentic version of this story of Girls Like Girls.ā
āI hope it inspires people to never give up on their relationships with others or themselves,ā Kiyoko says. āBecause it may take 10 years, but you will get there.ā
Girls Like Girls comes out June 19 in theaters.
This special Digital Cover Story is also part of Outās May-June 2026 print issue, on newsstands now. Support queer media and subscribe ā or download the issue through Apple News+, Zinio, Nook, or PressReader.





