Meet Out's 2023 List of Most Eligible Bachelorettes
These are our queer women crushes of 2023!
Out has just released its first list of Most Eligible Bachelors in years, and we’re equally excited to give you our 2023 class of Most Eligible Bachelorettes as well!
These are the most dateable famous queer women on the planet, and this feature is meant to celebrate them for everything they do (and not just their looks!) Here’s what we think about these 10 sexy and accomplished women.
Is there anything more iconic than coming out and starring as the love interest in a Hayley Kiyoko music video at the same time? That’s what you did in 2021, when you played the cottagecore girlfriend of Hayley’s dreams in the music video for “Chance.” You’re not just one of the most beautiful actors in the world, but also one of the most talented! You were incredible in Tick,Tick… Boom! and we cannot wait to see you as a Barbie in Barbie! We’d take a chance on you for sure!
There’s nothing more attractive than a woman who’s funny, and Ana, you are one of the funniest people on TV. We were heartbroken when we learned that your hilarious show Los Espookys was canceled, and we’ll forever be sad that we never get to see Tati try out a new job or make gazpacho for her gay husband again. We hope we get to see a lot more of you soon! We’d love to go out for some vegan food and tell each other jokes, call us?
We love a bimbo! And we especially love a bimbo when she’s as smart and talented as you! Ever since the first time we saw you on TikTok telling women and girls that they deserve better and that if our boyfriends suck, you’ll be our girlfriend instead, we’ve been head over pink platform heels! You taught us that a bimbo is “pro-choice, pro-sex work, pro-BLM” and carries themselves with confidence no matter what anyone says, and we love it! Plus, your music is absolutely amazing and makes us feel as powerful as the sun! You’re one of our favorite she/they bisexuals in the world.
Miss Ross, we would like a moment of your time, please! We’ve loved you since waayyy back before Pose; we’re big Her Story and TransTech Social fans! And seeing you grow as an actor, creative, and person in those years has been an absolute joy, and we’ve done nothing but fall deeper in love with you! You always speak up and stand up for the trans community, and you always look distinguished, beautiful, and brilliant when you do.
We’d love to smoke a j and chill with you, Joy! We don’t know which we fell for first: your smooth-as-hell music or your cute-as-hell face! Whenever we need to ground and center ourselves, we want songs to vibe to, or we want to sing along with songs that make us feel cool as hell, we put your music on and have a great time. We also love the way you rock denim and baseball caps. You’re a true dreamboat!
Fletcher, you’re so hot in your vintage t-shirt, and everything else you wear! We absolutely love your music, we’ve been rocking out to “Bitter” for years, and Girl of My Dreams was one of our favorite albums in recent years (plus its title perfectly sums up how we’d describe you). You put on an amazing live show and you’re never afraid to let it all hang out, and for that, we admire you. Also, we’ve gotta say: it’s pretty sexy the way you care so much about the dwindling lesbian bar scene in America!
Nat from 'The Ultimatum'
From the first time we saw you, Nat, on The Ultimatum, we were 100 percent into you. You may have shown up as Tiff’s friend, but you left as all of our crushes. Not only were you seemingly the most sane and emotionally mature person on the show, but you’re hot as hell as well! And now that we’ve found your social media, our crush has only gotten bigger! Nat please be in our lives! We’d never give you an ultimatum, we promise!
Nori Reed, everytime we see you around in LA we can’t help but blush! You’re seriously the funniest standup comedian we’ve ever seen, and we can’t stop thinking about how much you make us laugh! We loved your social media presence for a long time, but seeing you in person making jokes about the collapse of America, especially for trans people, really solidified our crush. We have to laugh to survive times like these, and we love laughing because someone as hot as you makes us.
Rina, you’re our number one pop idol! We can never get too much of you, and we’d really love to join your chosen family! We thought we couldn't love you more after we fell for your music over the last few years, but then when you made your film debut in John Wick 4, we fell in love on a whole new level! Pop icon and sexy action star? What more could we ask for?
We’re changing our majors to Roberta! All of us fell for you as the standoffish butch pitcher Lupe in A League of Their Own, and we haven’t gotten over you! You stole every scene you were in, and every scene featured a half dozen of our other biggest queer crushes! We don’t know if we want to be you or date you, but we’ll be happy with either! We can’t wait to see you again! Maybe we could play catch some time?