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    12 Things You Should Never Say to a Gay Man

    B. Whiteside
    06/09/17
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    12 Things You Should Never Say to a Gay Man

    12 Things You Should Never Say to a Gay Man
      

    We've all been there. You're with some friends, everything's going fine, and then out of the blue your straight friend says something like "well why isn't there a straight pride?" or "OMG I love gay people," or "please stop making RuPaul's Drag Race references at me."

    If this has happened to you, or God forbid if you've ever said anything like this yourself, you might just benefit from thumbing through this list. Whether it's for catharsis, or educational purposes--please enjoy the 12 most irritating and problematic things you can say to gay men.

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