Niecy Nash-Betts has a way of making every conversation feel both joyful and grounded, and our latest Out and About chat is no exception. Fresh off being named the OUT100 Icon of the Year for 2025, Nash-Betts is having a moment that feels richly earned. Her career has spanned genres, decades, and expectations, from music video appearances with Beyoncé and Jay-Z to unforgettable work across Ryan Murphy’s universe, including her commanding performances in Monster: The Jeffrey Dahmer Story and Grotesquerie. And while she has delivered so many standout roles, Claws remains one I always recommend revisiting — if you are looking for a binge-worthy Niecy show this winter, start there. Of course, we also talk about travel. We bond over a shared love of Solvang, the charming California city that feels like stepping into a Danish storybook, she shares her travel essentials and favorite in-flight comfort film, and we dig into how she approaches LGBTQ+ culture while exploring the world. Keep Reading →
Sitges is not just a town, it's a promise of hedonism, freedom, and love. A place where you can be yourself without fear or shame, explains Bennet Böckstiegel.
Bennet Böckstiegel
Amid sun and spectacle, Bennet Böckstiegel went searching for closeness and found something far more complicated. Keep Reading →
I don't want to start every one of these posts with an anecdote about a family trip gone wrong, but this is relevant to the destination — promise, this will be the last time (maybe). Keep Reading →
Set against the Wasatch Mountains, Salt Lake City is one of the easiest U.S. capitals to reach.
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Salt Lake City wasn't at all what I expected. For a place that gets casually boxed in as “conservative,” the lived experience is a lot more textured — and, to my pleasant surprise, the locals were far warmer than I’d been led to believe. Government buildings may no longer be allowed to fly Pride flags, but step into the city itself and you'll see plenty of rainbows in shop windows, cafés, and bookstores as a kind of joyful counter-gesture. There's a calmness here; a gentle, open energy that hit me almost as soon as I started walking around. Expect ID checks at all bar entrances (even if you're well above 21, as Utah liquor laws are, well, specific), the sound of humidifiers humming in hotels because the air here is bone-dry, and Harvey Milk Boulevard — a central stretch along 900 South, renamed for the civil-rights icon — flying Pride colors all year round. Utah was the first Republican-led state to enact statewide employment and housing protections for LGBTQ+ people, which helps explain why Salt Lake’s queer community feels both visible and deeply rooted. Keep Reading →