Ariel Messman-Rucker is an Oakland-born journalist who now calls the Pacific Northwest her home. When she’s not writing about politics and queer pop culture, she can be found reading, hiking, or talking about horror movies with the Zombie Grrlz Horror Podcast Network.

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Sex & Relationships

How to give a hand job 101: Everything you need to know from technique to grip

We asked queer sex experts for their best tricks and tips to this classic sex act.

Ariel Messman-Rucker

Jul 29, 2026

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