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Dating

Single, gay, 42, hate apps. Help!

The Ask Alexander columnist gives advice for escaping the digital cruising swamp.

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Relationships

Advice: Is my partner really enjoying fisting?

The Ask Alexander columnist gives advice for gauging a sexual partner's pleasure.