Skip to content
Search

Latest Stories

Close-up collage of four people’s eyes illuminated in blue, pink, and purple lighting
Out Exclusives

Are labels holding back the modern LGBTQ+ movement?

The LGBTQ+ movement built labels for survival. Now, they're being used by its enemies as platforms for attack.

fetish images
Sex & Relationships

What is a fetish? From leather to feet, a gay sex expert explains

Here is everything you need to know about fetishes, and how they intersect with gay culture.

Young person leans against a rail and looks at the camera
Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: I'm a gay trans man. What if a guy rejects my body?

Columnist Alexander Cheves offers advice to a gay trans man navigating hookup anxiety, dysphoria, rejection, and intimacy with cis men.

Close-up of a clenched fist against a black background with dramatic lighting
Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: Why is fisting so dangerously competitive?

Columnist Alexander Cheves advises a reader on navigating the competitive side of fisting culture — and why pleasure, patience, and intimacy matter more than milestones.

Traditional colorful fishing boats floating in the harbor of Marsaxlokk, Malta, with historic buildings and a church in the background
Travel

I left my heart in Malta, a queer haven in the Mediterranean

The Mediterranean island nation blends ancient history, vibrant queer community, DIY Pride spirit, and some of Europe’s strongest LGBTQ+ rights protections, reports travel writer Alexander Cheves.

A person peeling the skin off a peach, exposing the smooth fruit underneath while holding it in their hands
Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: Hairy vs. smooth butt—which do gay guys prefer?

Columnist Alexander Cheves tackles a reader’s question about whether the removal of body hair is necessary prep before rimming.

many hands point to a sad man
Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: I love being gay but live in the Middle East. What do I do?

Columnist Alexander Cheves responds to a reader who lives in a place where he feels he is "killing a part of myself" by hiding his gay identity.

man praying
Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: I'm lonely but afraid I'll go to hell for being gay. What do I do?

Columnist Alexander Cheves responds to a reader who wants a same-sex partner but is fearful of Biblical consequences.