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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: Hairy vs. smooth butt—which do gay guys prefer?

Columnist Alexander Cheves tackles a reader’s question about whether the removal of body hair is necessary prep before rimming.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: I love being gay but live in the Middle East. What do I do?

Columnist Alexander Cheves responds to a reader who lives in a place where he feels he is "killing a part of myself" by hiding his gay identity.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: I'm lonely but afraid I'll go to hell for being gay. What do I do?

Columnist Alexander Cheves responds to a reader who wants a same-sex partner but is fearful of Biblical consequences.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: Can I wear fetishwear to a nice restaurant?

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives advice to a reader confused about whether a Nasty Pig padlock necklace is appropriate in formal settings.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: How do I get my partner to be more dominant in bed?

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives advice to a reader seeking help in bedroom communication — specifically, in conveying he wants a turn as the "passenger princess."

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: Can I DM a guy I haven't seen in years?

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives advice to a reader wondering if reaching out to someone from years ago is brave or just awkward.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: I'm a straight guy. Can I be a sub for a gay dom?

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives advice to a straight reader who is taking his submissive side seriously.

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How 'The Beauty' reflects men's killer new beauty standards

Male beauty standards are becoming increasingly unattainable — and unhealthy.