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Opinion

Go Ask Alex: I came out after retirement and lost all my work friends

Columnist Alexander Cheves helps a reader navigate the heartbreak of losing decades-long workplace friendships after coming out — and the challenge of building authentic community later in life.

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Opinion

Go Ask Alex: How do I leave an abusive bf when I've no money or place to go?

Columnist Alexander Cheves shares practical advice, LGBTQ+ resources, and a reminder that no one has to escape abuse alone.

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Opinion

Go Ask Alex: Should I leave the gayborhood for a bigger paycheck in Alabama?

Gay friends or more money? Columnist Alexander Cheves answers for a conflicted reader.

Lady Chablis at Savannah's Club One
Print Issue

An ode to Savannah's Club One and the future of queer spaces

The relocation of the nightclub, made famous by the Lady Chablis, raises concerns about the preservation of historic queer spaces.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: How do I divorce the dad of my kids without starting a war?

Columnist Alexander Cheves addresses a reader's decision to leave her marriage and how to move forward with clarity, compassion, and her children in mind.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: I love anal sex—but what do I say when it gets messy?

Columnist Alexander Cheves addresses a reader's question about tackling hygiene anxiety without shame, blame, or embarrassment.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: I don't like my penis after an implant. What do I do?

Columnist Alexander Cheves addresses a reader's genital dysmorphia and struggle to rediscover pleasure after life-changing surgery.

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Sex & Relationships

Go Ask Alex: My best friend is dating my ex-husband. Is it OK to be upset?

Columnist Alexander Cheves offers advice on surviving the emotional fallout when your best friend dates your ex.