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Diplo Is the Unlikely Ambassador of a Sexually Fluid Future

Diplo is “not not gay.” So what does that mean for the state of LGBTQ+ labels?

Dying Gay Bars? There's a Sobering Upside

The sober-curious movement hurts gay bars, but it’s a lifeline for a community that has been disproportionately harmed by substances.

It's Time to Talk About Gay Steroid Use

Bros shone a light on men using testosterone injections to achieve a muscular physique. Columnist Alexander Cheves further explores its queer history and dangers.

13 New Tips for Happier, Healthier Bottoming

Bottoming is great, but there's A LOT that comes with it, writes Out's sex writer.

How To Be the Best Top You Can Be

Topping is an art form, and there's a lot that goes into it, explains advice columnist, author, and queer sex writer Alexander Cheves.

The Sex Party Checklist: A Guide to Helping Your Guests Come Together

Out's Alexander Cheves offers tips on how to make your next sex party a fun, unforgettable occasion.

How a Cis Gay Man Learned to Embrace Women's Panties

Alexander Cheves navigates fears related to stigma and fetishization.

Help! How Do I Know If I'm Addicted to Porn?

Advice columnist, author, and queer sex writer Alexander Cheves breaks down one reader's question about their relationship with porn — and the stigmas so many people still have about it. 

Turning 30: What It Means When You're Gay

Not a boy, not yet a daddy, writes Out columnist Alexander Cheves.

Here's How Technology Will (and Won't) Change Sex in the Future

As technology and a pandemic push digital encounters, a writer stresses the importance of IRL connections.

Are Your Sex Toys Gender-Inclusive?

Toys are getting a redesign for trans and nonbinary consumers thanks to brands like Maude.

Can Fetish Be Fashion?

What are the ethics of appropriating from the leather community?

U Host?: Why Traveling (in Every Sense) Is a Queer Experience

Whether it's to find ourselves, find community, or find a hookup, it's an experience we all know.

Hollywood Has Come A Long Way With Gay Sex — I Demand It Go Further

While we have seen some groundbreaking love scenes in shows like Pose recently, we still have a ways to go before the sex on screen looks like my life.

The Dangerous Trend of LGBTQ+ Censorship on the Internet

Tumblr's "adult content" ban is just the latest in a string of worrying events. 

17 Tips for Happier, Healthier Bottoming

From fiber to fingering, here is a guide to being a better bottom.

The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex

Finally, a medical professional gets to the bottom of anal.

Don’t Make Vanilla Guys Bark

“Who’s my little wolf? Moooo!”