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Rimming, explained: Expert advice on pleasure, hygiene, and safety

Like all sex acts, it’s part technique and part passion. Here are some expert tips on how to do it well.

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Go Ask Alex: Why do people 'come out' as demisexual? I don't get it

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives advice to a reader who is confused by newer queer labels.

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Go Ask Alex: My first gay hookup blackmailed me. Is sex really worth it?

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives advice to someone who "promised myself that I would never have a hookup again" after a bad experience.

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Go Ask Alex: I'm a gay Latino with a dad bod. Will fit guys ever want me?

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives dating advice to a "shallow" reader.

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Go Ask Alex: I hired a gay escort and fell in love. What do I do?

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives advice to a man who developed feelings for a sex worker.

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Opinion

Go Ask Alex: I'm 65, gay, and married to a woman. Is it too late for love?

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives advice to a gay man married to a woman.

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Go Ask Alex: I opened my relationship and now I feel left out. Help!

Columnist Alexander Cheves gives advice to a reader worried that opening up is "tearing our relationship apart."

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Go Ask Alex: I hate hot gay men. No one notices me! What do I do?

Columnist Alexander Cheves offers advice to a gay man envious of those who have "an easy time getting dates or sex."