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Not quite business casual: How to show up as your whole self in the workplace

Your Lovable Trans Auntie on surviving cubicles, colleagues, and casual transphobia, all while wearing stilettos high enough to survive and thrive above it.

When exes blossom in Spring—and how to nip them in the bud

As daffodils pop and DMs ping, Your Lovable Trans Auntie picks up the flirty, foolproof guide to spotting recycled romance—and pruning it before it overshadows your springtime bloom.

Pete Hegseth's Pentagon makeup suite is proof hyper-masc is manhood make-believe

Opinion: Pete Hegseth’s Pentagon makeup suite reveals the irony of hyper-masculinity, exposing how bravado meets bronzer and even the loudest MAGA warriors rely on eyeliner.

This illustrator shows us his diverse, intimate, and colorful queer slices of life

Discover the unique world of queer artist Ego Rodriguez, blending pop culture, mythology, and bold colors in his original art.

'Protect the dolls,' they said—so why was I yet at another trans memorial?

Join Your Lovable Trans Auntie in honoring a trans youth's memory and standing up for all trans and queer youths. Protect the dolls, forever and always.

Betty Boop's real-life boyfriend is gay, gorgeous, and spreading joy on Broadway

Boop! The Musical star Ainsley Melham opens up about the hit Broadway show, queer joy as protest, and why dancing through darkness might be the ultimate act of defiance.

Am I feeling 'Younger,' or is it the joy of finally living my truest self?

I, too, know what it's like to rediscover the electric thrill of dates and desires I was never allowed to claim before.

Are gay bars still safe spaces, or are they straight people's playgrounds?

In an era where queer acceptance flourishes, the essence of gay bars evolves, igniting questions of belonging and identity.

Your Lovable Trans Auntie asks, "Where do we go from here?"

Trans Day of Visibility 2025 felt like a heartfelt wave of connection. But keeping the flow moving is equally essential for lasting change.

Why I will not flee this tide of transphobia

One therapist reflects on a poignant conversation that ignites a powerful call for resilience, solidarity, and unwavering faith amidst growing oppression and uncertainty.

Ask Auntie: Reflecting on my trans journey toward visibility

On Trans Day of Visibility, your Loveable Trans Auntie shares her evolution from hidden fears to unapologetic pride.

Finding Hope: A conversation with trans activist Hope Giselle-Godsey

In a world that often marginalizes Black trans women, Hope Giselle-Godsey's unwavering activism speaks truth to power.

Netflix's 'Survival of the Thickest' is fiercer than ever

Michelle Buteau's Mavis Beaumont navigates heartbreak and self-love in the hit show's second season.

Jimi Urquiaga's portraits prove drag artists have mainstream appeal

Their work showcases the power and talent of the drag community and push for more representation in mainstream media.

Ask Auntie: Disclosing your trans identity with confidence

Is disclosure a vital trans tool to spread one's wings, or can it feel like a fragile chrysalis?

Sorry, haters — drag is everywhere

Drag is a natural form of self-expression permeating every corner of society, writes Drag Race alum Mrs. Kasha Davis.

Ask Auntie: To pass or not to pass? The trans tightrope we walk

Grab a martini, darling. Let’s talk about it.

Ask Auntie: Outing your MAGA trade–is it ever okay?

Is it ever okay to out them, or does that cross a boundary? Advice from your Lovable Trans Auntie.

Creating an oasis and finding joy in my garden

Guest writer Brett Chisholm on finding peace and joy through gardening amidst trauma and chaos.

Ask Auntie: Trans folks built this community. Why are we still locked out?

In the wake of the gruesome murder of Sam Nordquist, with one of the perpetrators identified as a member of the LGBTQ+ community, your Lovable Trans Auntie unpacks the trans bias within the LGBTQ+ community.