My Spouse Cheated On Me With My In-Law. How Do I Move On?
In this installment of our advice column, ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer says you are not defined by the bad things that happen to you.
November 26 2019 9:00 AM
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John Paul Brammer
I'm Bored With Dating. When Will I Find Love Again?
In this installment of our advice column, ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer says self-awareness is only half the battle.
November 19 2019 9:31 AM
Am I Bisexual?
In this installment of our advice column, ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer doesn't want you to get so existential.
November 13 2019 9:41 AM
Should I Fake My Astrology Sign to Be More Employable?
In this installment of our advice column, ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer wants to be a Leo.
November 05 2019 10:18 AM
How Do I Apologize to Exes Who Don’t Want to Hear It?
In this installment of our advice column, ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer gives some “bitter medicine.”
October 30 2019 11:24 AM
Can I Be Gay and Happy Living in Rural America?
In this installment of our advice column, ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer phones a friend.
October 23 2019 3:18 PM
I Settled For a Life That Doesn't Make Me Happy. What Do I Do?
In this installment of our advice column, ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer wants you to play some Dungeons & Dragons.
October 15 2019 9:18 AM
I Want to Dress Gayer — But Not, Like, Too Gay
In this installment of our advice column, ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer is not your JVN.
October 09 2019 9:18 AM
My Mom Is Writing Erotica. She Wants Help With Her Gay Sex Scenes
In this installment of our advice column, ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer stans your mom.
October 02 2019 2:40 PM
I’m Depressed About Living with HIV. Is That OK?
In this installment of our advice column, ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer discusses how to deal with a layered issue.
September 24 2019 8:40 AM
Am I in Love With My Straight Best Friend?
In this installment of our advice column, ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer suggests you get some space from unrequited loves.
September 17 2019 2:26 PM
I Want to Define the Relationship. Is It Too Soon?
In this installment of our advice column, !Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer says it's time to have "the talk."
September 10 2019 5:27 PM
I’m Getting Married But I Can’t Stop Dreaming About My Ex
In this installment of our advice column, !Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer responds to a reader who can't tell if she's having cold feet.
September 03 2019 12:18 PM
My Ex Wants to Keep Hanging Out. Should I?
In this installment of our advice column, !Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer responds to a reader who can't let old habits die.
August 27 2019 7:30 AM
My Friends Want Me To 'Tone It Down.' Am I Too Gay?
In this week's installment of ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer addresses a reader's concerns about being "too much."
August 20 2019 3:33 PM
I Hate Small Talk. Does That Make Me Bad at Dating?
In this week's installment of ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer addresses a reader's concerns about being too quiet on dates.
August 13 2019 11:31 AM
If I Don’t Come Out to My Coworkers, Am I Part of the Problem?
In this week’s installment of our advice column ¡Hola Papi! by John Paul Brammer, we dive into the etiquette and ethics of workplace queerness.
August 06 2019 11:39 AM
My Newfound Partner Won't Stop Snoring. How Do I Bring This Up?
In this week's installment of our advice column ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer helps address the concerns of some new lovers.
July 24 2019 10:26 AM
Stop Demanding People of Color to Show ‘Gratitude’
The idea that immigrants and people of color should be quiet and grateful to simply live in the US isn’t unintentional. It’s by design.
July 19 2019 4:19 PM
Help! My Boyfriend Pretended to Be Latino
In this week's installment of ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer tackles the bizarre case of Michelada Dolezal.