Terry Miller, husband of widely syndicated sex-advice columnist Dan Savage, does not let his spouse outshine him. Miler is an underwear model, stay-at-home spouse, and father, who with Savage has formed one of the internet’s favorite gay power couples—and it’s easy to see why. Whether through his thirst-inducing Instagram pics or through his advocacy work (together Miller and Savage founded the award-winning It Gets Better Project to support LGBT youth), Miller and Savage complement each other. They were married in Vancouver in 2005 and then again in Washington State following its 2012 legalization of same-sex marriage. They are the smart and sexy pairing that this country needs—even if it’s not what we deserve.