“It was sort of an everyday-thing you might do with your partner,” Will Taylor said of the day photographer Jean-Laurent Gaudy came over their apartment and just hung out with them. “He wanted it to be natural.”
Instead of overly-posed nuzzling and gimmicky scenes, they opted for casual socked-feet under a table at their home
After being together for more than eight years, Will Taylor and Toby Willis were happy to spend a casual afternoon with someone who just happened to be taking pictures.
Of course, having such a scenic space to “be natural” in helps. Will Taylor is the founder of Bright Bazaar, an interior design blog he started in 2009 that emphasizes the use of color in the design process. So the kitchen and living area of his apartment that he and his fiancé are shown in are impeccably decorated with just the right amount of pigment.
Now that he and Toby are getting married this June in Spain, Will says he didn’t let his expertise and passion turn him into a groomzilla.
He and Toby planned everything for the wedding, including color scheme—yellows, blues, and hints of mint—together. “We’ve been kind of laid back about it,” said Taylor, “neither of us are people that dreamt about picturesque weddings.”
Neither of them wanted something as non-descript as a marquee outside of a hotel, either. Their solution? A quiet vineyard they’ve frequented for years on the Balearic Islands of Spain. “We have a lot of happy memories there,” he said, “and it’s compact for the number of guests we wanted.”
Don’t expect a rigid adherence to tradition during the occasion, however. Will likes the fact that gay weddings have less of an expectation when it comes to custom. “We felt like it was just an open book to create the celebration we wanted,” he said.
While they’re keeping the exchanging of rings and overall outline of the ceremony, instead of bridesmaids they’ll have “best girls,” and they still haven’t decided if they’re going to have a cake or share a first dance yet. One tradition that his fiancé made sure they kept was how surprised Will was when he was proposed to by Toby.
The pair was spending some time in Paris in December 2012 and Will off-handedly mentioned all of the things women go through and the decisions they make when they get married.
Toby told Will they had to buy a house together first and settle down before they could even think of marriage. Taylor agreed and was effectively thrown off the scent until later that night, on top of the Centre Pompidou, when Toby proposed that the two get married.
“The whole thing was quite funny,” Taylor chuckles as he recalls obliviously taking pictures and selfies moments before it happened.
The couple has only had about a month of collective planning for their big day.
Taylor, who only got back 10 days ago from a six-week book tour across the United States, said that after eight and a half years together, things are just sliding into place with few disagreements.