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12 Things to Never Say to Gay Men

Shit straight people say to gay guys.

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10. “So which one of you are the girl”
Two men in a relationship are two men in a relationship. There is no woman, that’s the point. Gay men have the luxury of defining their own relationships and the normalcies it will include.

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11. “Wow, you’re into sports?”
Yes. A gay man enjoying a game of football isn’t the strangest thing. There are far more peculiar things to question and obsess over. A gay man cheering on is favorite sports team is not one of them.

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12. “But… isn’t it painful”
Again, that isn’t really any of your business, but for the record – yes. At least at first, but who’s doesn’t like a little pain no and again… you asked! 


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