1. First, recognize that the couple (who may have already been living together for many years) may not need many of the basic household items usually given for showers and weddings. However, they may be interested in adding to or replacing pieces of their favorite crystal, china, or silver patterns -- or receiving related decorative pieces such a matching candle holders or vases.
2. Appreciate that couples may prefer some wedding gift that recognize/celebrate/contribute to their gay pride.
September 07 2012 8:00 PM