The best wedding music makes everyone want to be in love, or feel like they have fallen in love all over again. But the best gay wedding music is sung by people who have known disappointment, have risen above, and let love save the day. Who better than queer musicians Dusty Springfield, Johnny Mathis, Levi Kreis, k.d. lang, and Kele Okereke of Bloc Party to sing for our celebrations? Plus, Etta James’s “At Last” and INXS’s “Never Tear Us Apart” takes on a new resonance in a post-DOMA age, and if Shirley Bassey isn’t serving you all world-weary romance, just dripping with overwrought passion, then your speakers must be broken.