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How To Be the Best Top You Can Be

Topping is an art form, and there's a lot that goes into it, explains advice columnist, author, and queer sex writer Alexander Cheves.

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Help! How Do I Know If I'm Addicted to Porn?

Advice columnist, author, and queer sex writer Alexander Cheves breaks down one reader's question about their relationship with porn — and the stigmas so many people still have about it. 
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How Do I Apologize to Exes Who Don’t Want to Hear It?

In this installment of our advice column, ¡Hola Papi!, John Paul Brammer gives some “bitter medicine.”

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These Chappy Influencers Have Some Tips for Coming Out

In celebration of National Coming Out Day, Out and gay networking app Chappy have partnered to bring you a set of tips from queer influencers for new generations of LGBTQ+ people coming out today.

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Billy Francesca: Advice From an Idiot on Speaking Up

Guest columnist Billy Francesca may be an idiot, but as one of L.A.’s premier party promoters and half-drag nightlife doyennes, he’s an idiot who has been around the damn block, honey. This week Billy answers questions about telling the truth about the past to a new love, communicating long-distance.

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Billy Francesca: Advice From an Idiot on Going Slow

Guest columnist Billy Francesca may be an idiot, but as one of L.A.’s premier party promoters and half-drag nightlife doyennes, he’s an idiot who has been around the damn block, honey. This week Billy answers questions about getting accustomed to a new relationship, and sizable anatomy.

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Billy Francesca: Advice From an Idiot on The Holiday Blues (and Teals and Ultramarines)

Guest columnist Billy Francesca may be an idiot, but as one of L.A.’s premier party promoters and half-drag nightlife doyennes, he’s an idiot who has been around the damn block, honey. This week Billy answers questions about the (joyous?) holiday season. Get out your gem sweaters!

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Billy Francesca: Advice From an Idiot on Money Woes and Invitations

Guest columnist Billy Francesca may be an idiot, but as one of L.A.’s premier party promoters and half-drag nightlife doyennes, he’s an idiot who has been around the damn block, honey. This week Billy talks a financial imbalance and responding to an invitation.